Surrender is the way and there is no other way. Surrender is the way to Moksha and surrender is the way to live. However, we dont surrender. When we think I am doing this, then this I is there. When we think I am doing, this I is there and when we think what would happen to me, this I is there. Biggest is when I think...this I is there. Thinking of I itself blocks the I to reach to real I and that is God. When we know that everything happens with gods will, every particle has God's desire then how can it happen that we are not taken care of. I wonder, what is our role in creation of the Panch Mahabhoot and then creation of body from that. We just know that our body is made of that but why it was picked up like that? We know it rains, makes water falls and rivers and these rivers reach to sea, but what is our role in that? Same way, our lives flow like rivers, what is our role in that? We have no role in anything whatever is happening and when we have no role then why are we worried unnecessarily? 

What I have seen is surrender is not a problem. For a moment, many do surrender. I remember from childhood, for many small things I use to say, God, you are doing this and then become free. Like if I am not sleepy and I want to sleep, so I would say, I am sleeping in your lap, please make me sleep instead of struggling to sleep, immediately I use to drift to sleep. While cooking also, though it appears like I am cooking but I know internally, I am not. Same way now also, for every small thing I surrender. Now, I surrender sometimes because I feel I cant handle, sometimes out of fun too. So surrender is not an issue, issue is to live in that surrender for every moment. Second problem happens, we surrender and we still keep bothering about that. When we bother it means we have not surrenderd or we have retained our position. IF that happens, then we have actually not surrenderd and in that case we again worry, however, if you handover your responsibility to someone, then you need to trust that he/she would do his job or dont handover. In surrender if you are worried it means actually you do not trust God that if he can do best for you. Do you realise when we dont surrender what actually we are feeling? So better let god do his work.

Now, dont surrenderm because you cant handle something, you can do that also, atleast it will help you in beginning your real faith in him but live in surrender so that you can actually realise the beauty of this Universe.