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Yesterday I was sitting in a school where I could see some high voltage drama. Its admission time and parents have lots of issues. So one mother came and started complaining against one teacher. The teacher entered with a smile but suddenly her emotions flared up. It ignited the situation and the teacher who was smiling few minutes back was now red with anger. Another teacher interrupted and sent the first teacher to her class. The mother kept shouting and the other teacher kept her calm and smiling. After few minutes the mother too calmed down and they sorted out the situation peacefully. I asked the second teacher if she has lots of patience. She replied very beautifully, if I let my emotions be disturbed with her emotions, first thing there would be no resolution and then where am I in this? So beautiful! Letting someone else decide how you react is like giving your remote to someone else. He plays channel #1 and one reaction is played. He plays channel #2 and second reaction is played. But my dear you are not a TV set and you are not controlled via a remote. You are a very powerful human being and you need to realise your powers. Understand what you are, what you want, how you feel and why you feel the way you feel. be certain of yourself because until you are certain of yourself. Do ask yourself what do I want and why do I want that. If I want to be dependent on others approval, if I am so unstable that anyone can come and snub me through his/her emotions. If someone else is angry at something, that's his choice, why should I let myself be angry at same. One girl came to me and said that her mother in law is very manipulative and it keeps pissing Her off. I asked her, if she can get orange juice from a mango and definitely the answer is no. A person can only give what he/has inside. If she is manipulative, this is what she is and this is what she has. But if she becomes same, it means she is growing up a new yield which she may not like herself. She agreed and realised her mistake. We all need to be more and more aware of our feelings and we should not let others disturb our emotions. Emotions are the most beautiful gift because thats what makes as alive. If we cant feel then what is the difference between us and a rock. We can feel and the rock cant. Do you wanna waste your most precious gift just like that?