Dear friends we will discuss about judgment and guilt in our intimate relationships. Relationships are ground where we not only experience joy, happiness, oneness, intimacy etc , but  also where we confront hurts, sadness ,anger ,  disconnection most .Relationship is the only platform which brings our deepest realities on surface.  In difficult situations we  commonly resort to anger ,blaming ,judgment or dissconnetion to control our…

Affirmations are used for bringing changes in our state of mind,life conditions and relationships. We often read about using these affirmations in many self help books. Many of us would have tried these affirmations but with little results. How do we use these affirmations so that they can bring about deeper changes?

First understand that the affirmations work if we are vibrating at higher frequency . So to begin the affirmation start with " I am That I am, I am Spirit who has…

Dear Friends I will like to share about Enneagram number 2. This represents  self sacrificing, service oriented helper. Our typical Indian female is epitome of Enneagram 2. It is here that self sacrifice and service becomes the dominating feature of persona. This is archetype of  feminine energy where generosity, love , caring attitude becomes  guiding factor for all actions.Mothers who place welfare of family and husband above their needs represent…

 Hi friends we discussed basics about enneagram basics in last post. I will take up enneagram number 5 for deeper discussion. This is the personality which uses intellecft and logic as a defense pattern. Have you ever felt in intimate relationship that your partner is using rationalization and all logic s  and  fail to feel what you are feeling. You feel as if your deeper feelings have been thrown in front of inanimate brick wall which cannot  appreciate or understand what you are feeling.…