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I take care that others are not hurt emotionally, I take care that everyone who's working under me is happy, I take care to help people financially when they are in dire need of money, I take care not to humiliate anyone, I take care that I’m there when people need me and in case inadvertently I hurt anyone I make every effort to rectify my mistake.
Still these people cheat, lie, steal and insult me at times. ‘These people’ sometimes are my relatives, sometimes domestic help, sometimes my employees. Why this happens to me? This is a question I’ve been asking to me so many times. There is a proverb- As you sow, so shall you reap. But it proves wrong here as I know how much I care for everyone. Then why same people turn out to be so rude, insensitive and self centered?
It's difficult to differentiate between good and bad as these are perceptions which differ according to one's parameters. But if we simplify the definitions then good is something which do not harm anyone in anyway and bad is what harms. Then my question is - why bad things happen to good people? And when this keeps on happening then one will lose some part of his/her goodness, become insensitive and lose trust in others. This is what happens with me at times.
I (now) completely believe in the first reason Rekha mentioned i.e. the theory of many lives and the play of Karmic accounts. Leave aside what I did in this life, we also get to see certain children born with some deformities, uncontrollable behavior or some strange habits so much so that we start to wonder if these are our kids! My father had been a saint(honest and giving) throughout his life but has had bad near-death accidents which were shocking moments for not only our family but the community who had been looking up to him. If I borrow some money from you and meet you after a week in a different costume, I still am liable to pay you back what I owe you. So is the karmic account... whatever you think (not only do) for others is what you are giving out to them and you'll get it back from them to settle those accounts. Some will be settled in this costume (this life), and some in another costume (in some other life). That is why you meet some people for the first time and start to have either very good or very bad/negative feeling towards them (and you say - I don't know why?). Actually, it is not the first time you are meeting them. Your body is meeting them for the first time, but as a soul you have had some relationship with them in one of your earlier lives.The only way to settle those karmic accounts (and faster) is keep doing your good karmas. You one good karma to somebody will settle your another bad karma a/c with somebody else.