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I met a lady who is estranged by her husband. She said she hates all the men. She hates her husband, his family and all the men. It was a very big statement. I asked her, what do you get by hating anyone. She said I hate men and I asked again what do you get by hating anyone. She was looking at my face, she did not have answer. Then I actually asked myself, what do we get by hating anyone? Whenever something bad happens in life, we hold people responsible for those incidences and we fill up our hearts with haterd for them. However, what do we get? Hatred brings more hatred, it never brings love, thats for sure. It eats you up and all such things which we know. However, why we decide to hate someone? Does not matter how bad that person had been to us. First of all inside us, we are able to prove ourselves, I have a right to hate because I was right and other person was wrong. It definitely gives us a big strength inside us and we start gaining strength through that. However, we never take a break to analyze that such strength is full of negative energy and its a living demon inside us. More we feed stronger it becomes. Now the big question is do we really want that? Once someone said that I want to see so and so to be suffering in life. Actually he was talking about a girl who had dumped him. I asked him what would he get, he said when she would suffer, it would confirm to me, that I was right and she did wrong to me and thats why God punished her. I asked him, still what would he get from this satisfaction, he thought for a while and said actually nothing. it would just be my ego which would get satisfied. I asked him, if you are not going to get anything or any benefit, why do you want her to suffer which makes him think deeper. Then I told him, see what happens to her, instead of worrying about that, if you would think, how you can improve your life, it would channelise your energies better and he agreed. Always remember, hating someone does not give us anything other than satisfying our ego which proves that we have been right. However, it definitely burns us and our soul. It puts our soul in such a dark dungeon that we are unable to recognise our ownselves. Because we are pure love and to hate someone, we become someone which we are not. However, if you give love and become love, you get purer and purer. This world becomes yours. Choice is yours. You can decide if you actually want to loose everything just to satisfy your ego.