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Ego is so mysterious and it has reached the deepest of our creation. Even when we think we are working on ego and we have no ego..here goes the biggest ego. When we feel immense peace and love, here it pops up from nowhere. When God created humans, he created ego as a part of that creation. It is out of those 25 Gunas which make us. So till the time we are there, it would always be there. However, the challenge is in managing this ego and overcoming this and that can happen only when we surrender to God and his creation. When we accept love and we become love. When we accept the oneness of this creation which dissolves all the differences and when there is no difference there cannot be any ego. So its love which can help us in managing ego.
However, the problem happens when we keep ego above the love between us even in the most important relationships. That includes even a mother and a child, though it climas to be the most selfless love. We can see that between a father and a son, between two lovers and in every relationships. Few days back, one gentleman came to me who is estranged by his wife. He stopped even visiting her and did not realise that while ignoring her out of his ego, he has ignored his children too. After many years he has realised but he has already missed the flight as his children dont connect with him. If we sit and think we would realise that love is more important than ego. Do we want all strained relationships around us, if no, then definitely we need to keep love above ego. However, when we are in that moment, we forget that and ego comes above everything else. How dare he said this to me, how dare she did not do this for me, why should I bend, why should I go and make a first call and here love goes for a toss. Same way, we bow down in front of God, first of all we know he is all mighty and second thing we need him. We do not hug him because we love him. So we create all relationships around ego instead of love and that is why we are unable to enjoy the beauty of relationships and we keep losing love in our lives.
So take a break and analyse, what is more important, if the love is more important then amke it a priority. bring love and be love. Ego cannot be above the love in our relationships.