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Purpose of this life

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dr.Rekha N Deshmukh Oct 25, 2013. 14 Replies

It say that every one has come on this Earth with some purpose, but how to know it?? And if not known what is the meaning of this life, why do we live this meaningless life???

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Dr.Rekha N Deshmukh replied to Neelam's discussion Purpose of this life
"After a lot of efforts ad struggles on the road of path of discovery,I  Found out, I am here on this earth ,to guide others through their miseries,sorrows and problems they are facing in the life.Thus " couselling…"
Oct 25, 2013
Neelam replied to Shanu Goyal's discussion Spirituality
"Spiritualism is to go within self and listen to the silence, which makes us listen what words can't. it makes us deal the very basic quest WHO AM I ??. when we are able to connect to THE SELF, we may realize the ULTIMATE and DIVINELY ALMIGHTY…"
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Dec 31, 2012
Neelam replied to Neelam's discussion Purpose of this life
"Hallo Dr Vikas Khanna, I agree with you. once we realize the nothingness, we will know the worth of the soul n meaninglessness of this worldly trifle affairs. "
Dec 31, 2012
Ankur Acharya replied to Neelam's discussion Purpose of this life
"Thanks Sheetal. With regards, Ankur"
Dec 18, 2012
Ankur Acharya replied to Neelam's discussion Purpose of this life
"Thank you for those wonderful thought inputs, Bertie. I am enjoying reading this discussion. With regards, Ankur"
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Ankur Acharya replied to Neelam's discussion Purpose of this life
"Beautiful reply, Shanu. With regards, Ankur"
Dec 18, 2012
Ankur Acharya replied to Neelam's discussion Purpose of this life
"Same thoughts I harbour, dear Neelam. I have heard that cessation of sorrow and gaining of happiness, which is possible through God-realization, is the sole purpose of human existence. Exploring that idea. Ankur"
Dec 18, 2012
DR vikas khanna replied to Neelam's discussion Purpose of this life
"There is no purpose of life We repeat what we are told !"
Nov 25, 2012
sunil replied to Neelam's discussion Purpose of this life
"Learned friends have given their valuable comments on purpose of life.   But I may add in practical manner that purpose of life differ from man to man. This depends, upon personal interest and potentials. What so ever give the absolute pleasure…"
Oct 17, 2012
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Sheetal Jain replied to Neelam's discussion Purpose of this life
"Everyone is born with a purpose and everything happens for a reason. We do not eat without reason and we do not keep even one stone extra at home without a reason, then how can one take a birth without a reson. In this Universe everything is…"
Oct 6, 2012

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Sheetal Jain commented on Neelam's blog post Creating Positive Habits
"Hello Neelam, read your message on my blog, thank you for reading them...I am sorry..I did not receive your personal message. I tried sending you on here, it said you should be my friend, so I have sent you request here. Please write me at…"
Oct 6, 2012
Neelam commented on Sheetal Jain's blog post Love is never wrong. Its our belief system, which defines it as right or wrong.
"Hi Sheetal, I read the nuggets of thoughts you post in The New Age Foundation. I had written you through mail also, I really like you outlook. I also believe in such spiritual thoughts. I would love to meet you some time and if we could do something…"
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Bindu Rajalekshmi replied to Neelam's discussion Purpose of this life
"very nice.purpose of life you will find yourself and life is a journey and enjoy each and every moment of your life"
Oct 7, 2011

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Creating Positive Habits

 

Some habits do not upset us, but others can cause irritation, frustration and desperation. We want to rid ourselves of them: but how?

 

When we look at the creation and fulfillment of thoughts, it looks like a closed system: the thoughts lead to actions, the actions create a series of impressions (sanskars), and these impressions are responsible for similar thoughts, which lead us to similar actions, this is a vicious cycle.

 

If we want to change a habit, then where do we start? In other words, where do we change the system or how do we get out of the cycle? First of all, we can try changing our negative actions: for example, stop a negative habit like smoking. In many cases, although we change our behaviour, but because we have not understood deeply why we wanted to do it, is quite possible that one day we will go back to this old habit.

 

We can try changing this system in our subconscious. By analysing what is recorded in our subconscious, through different therapies, the results are not altogether satisfactory. There is always some traumatic event, or painful experience behind a fear which causes us to cling on to a negative habit. And although we can see and recognise our fears and anxieties, if we do not replace them with something better, with a more beneficial and healthier alternative, very often we will feel tempted to cling on to these old systems, even though they do not work and they make us unhappy. To eliminate certain things we have recorded in our subconscious, meditation and silence are the most effect non-violent methods.

 

Another method is to try and change our beliefs with positive affirmations (thoughts) that strengthen our willpower, and thus introduce a new habit to replace the old one. It is vital not to repeat this affirmation mechanically, but to introduce it into the system of beliefs we hold, and act as if we already were what we express in this affirmation.

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Creating Positive Habits

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Creating Positive Habits







Some habits do not upset us, but others can cause irritation, frustration and desperation. We want to rid ourselves of them: but how?







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